Maintaining your race?

I think the person said "Marriage is for white people" meant that "What is the point of following the white model when you are trying to maintain your race"?

I'm Asian-Indian and I'm tired of all Asian family and minorities's anger of trying to mold their children into an AMerican success while their trying to maintain their identity when they live in white neighborhoods, fear their own and other minorities, and elect leaders that are white.
I believe in the value of hard work only if it brings empowerment that can be shared or a power that is envied by all instead of secondary or second class manner in white American society. Most minorities are willing to work to the death for themselves and their family but ask them who they rather support as a leader: a white one with no work ethic but can keep other minorities away from them. An annoying contradiction that is so prevalent and never seems to go away. Sam Yorty made a living out of this as mayor of Los Angeles in the 60's with conservative Jews and smaller minorities. George W is doing the same with conservative Hispanics, Asians, Blacks, and Muslims.